Oh, bliss. I should be emo on my journal more often. ^^
Thank you for your kind words. It's kinda depressing to know that this won't change, but it's also good to know that I'm not the only sane person who thinks that people should just be able to decide what they want to do for themselves.
If you let somebody think and do what they want just these person say to you: "I´m not important for you. If I would be important for you, ore you would take care about me you don´t would let me do that!" or "helped me with that" ore something like this
I don't get that logic, either. I mean, state an opinion about what somebody else is doing is one thing. Giving people advise if they ask for it. But intervening when somebody is living their lives and seeming happy about how they go about it? Just because I think things should be done differently? Um... not what I'd call caring. Being annoying and terribly nosy and bossy is more like it.
I care about my friends. But I also believe in the freedom of personal choice. More than I do in changing people. Actually, I don't think you can change people. People can change, but only if they want and see the need to themselves.
*hugs back* Thanks again for commenting :). It did make me feel better.
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Oh, bliss. I should be emo on my journal more often. ^^
Thank you for your kind words. It's kinda depressing to know that this won't change, but it's also good to know that I'm not the only
saneperson who thinks that people should just be able to decide what they want to do for themselves.If you let somebody think and do what they want just these person say to you: "I´m not important for you. If I would be important for you, ore you would take care about me you don´t would let me do that!" or "helped me with that" ore something like this
I don't get that logic, either. I mean, state an opinion about what somebody else is doing is one thing. Giving people advise if they ask for it. But intervening when somebody is living their lives and seeming happy about how they go about it? Just because I think things should be done differently? Um... not what I'd call caring. Being annoying and terribly nosy and bossy is more like it.
I care about my friends. But I also believe in the freedom of personal choice. More than I do in changing people. Actually, I don't think you can change people. People can change, but only if they want and see the need to themselves.
*hugs back* Thanks again for commenting :). It did make me feel better.