I like both theories. You must be really happy that your family are able to discuss a theme like this with you. I wished I could do the same with my family or friends but there is no one who read HP. And if I found someone who read it the guys are not able to talk with me about the books. I heard only: "Oh yes, good books or(one chollegue)I only saw the movies. I didn´t read the books but my husband has read the books. *Great!Idon´tknowthehusband-grrrrrr*. Whatever, you should enjoy the discussion. It´s great that there is anybody to discuss with you. I read every time for myself and without a discussion about the stuff I´ve read.